Tuesday, May 7, 2013

CHALLENGES AND OPPORTUNITIES FOR YOUNG LEADERS


TEN OUTSTANDING STUDENTS OF THE PHILIPPINES
NCR AWARDING CEREMONIES
KEYNOTE SPEECH
VICKY P. GARCHITORENA
MAY 6 2013

First, let me thank and congratulate RFM Foundation, RFM  Corporation, PLDT,  CHED for continuing this wonderful program of identifying outstanding students in the country. It is a program that has inspired thousands of young men and women across the country to live up to the values and principles of the program – ACADEMIC EXCELLENCE, LEADERSHIP, AND SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY. I am amazed that the program is now handled by the TOSP Alumni Community of NCR, a testament to your leadership and program management capabilities. Congratulations to all of you! I hope you invite me to join your community, as I would love to recruit all of you for my various advocacies.

Congratulations of course to the TOSP finalists in the National Capital Region. It is a singular honor that I hope you will treasure the rest of your lives.

Congratulations to the  parents, whose love and concern and devotion must have inspired you to be the best you can be. They  must also be bursting with pride at your accomplishments.

And of course congratulations are  in order for the  teachers who, I am certain played an important role in your development. I myself was inspired especially by two teachers. The first was a small Ilocana nun who taught me the importance of discipline in terms of punctuality, as well as physical and mental discipline. The second was my English teacher in college, who gently prodded us to excellence and made clear her disappointment when we didn’t give our very best.

Looking now into the bright young eyes of our finalists, I think about how fortunate you are to be living in this day and age. You know infinitely more things today than we knew when we graduated 49 years ago. You have all the information in the whole wide world at your fingertips  through the  Internet and your  mobile phones. At the click of a mouse or the swipe of your finger, you can learn about all the  technological advances being made today -  into space, into the depths of the oceans, into our brains, into the very fabric of matter.

But I hope you realize that, despite what you know today, you are always a work in progress. Tomorrow next week, next year, there will be new information, and sometimes the truth as we know it today will have been debunked as myth tomorrow. And no matter how much you think you know, there is always more you do not.

To share with you my own experience.  I graduated summa cum Laude in BSPhysics and thought I knew enough. But when I reported for work at the   Philippine Atomic Research  Center – that egg-shaped building just to the left of Commonwealth Avenue on the way to UP – I realized that I had no idea about what I was supposed to do in the program called neutron diffraction analysis! Siyempre Hindi Ako nagpahalata! I listened very carefully to everything my boss would say, read all the books they gave me, and learned fast!

So whatever it is you learned in college, it may well  be obsolete by the time you enter the workplace. The dizzying speed with which new information is being disseminated, the technological revolutions that are being created as we speak, imposes on us a discipline – to learn to cull from the all that information what is the truth; then to use that information to create knowledge; and from knowledge develop wisdom.

But while you continue to expand your understanding of the nature and depth and breadth of your area of expertise, do not limit yourself to that strength. I’m sure that most of you have other interests – music perhaps, or baking, or photography, or something other than your college degree. Continue to nurture that as well. You never know where destiny will lead you.

And while destiny may open certain doors  or windows for you, the choice is always yours. Because you are bright, eager, young kids at the threshold of your future, many opportunities will present themselves to you as you go through life. Take the time to examine each one as it comes along and make your decisions as wisely as you can.

My own career has zigged and zagged all over the place.

I’ve been a Physics researcher, parlayed my writing skills as Communications Manager at SGV,  used what I learned at SGV to become a corporate executive, resigned to become a full time street parliamentarian to protest the Marcos dictatorship,  volunteered as Director of Museo ng Malacanang,  ran for congress on the request of then President Cory, became a  radio and tv host of  public service programs,  NGO leader,  cabinet secretary, and, now in my retirement,  am the Vice President for the Women’s wing of the Liberal Party in order to develop and empower women and women’s organizations.

How did I do all that? 

I  continuously reinvented myself in  response to the challenges and opportunities that presented themselves to me. I also believe that the Holy Spirit has moved in my life  every time  I needed to  shift careers or make important decision, as when I resigned from my positions  top CEO of a number of companies in order to bring democracy back to our country. But always, even as I was a full time professional and attended to my growing family, I was also always involved in what was happening in the  country. I often volunteered for elections, for orphanages, for political activism, and for the church.

So whatever path you take, whether you stay on the path you are on today – as doctor, accountant, sociologist, artist – I wish to share with you the principles that I have lived by. Some of them have been highlighted by many of you in your responses to the questions posed to you by the TOSP search committee. They sound  simple but will help you in almost any situation and in almost any decision you have to make in life.

1.      Be a lifelong learner. Read good books, watch documentaries, listen to debates,  attend conferences and seminars. Learn about things that are outside your comfort zone.  You’ll be amazed at how seemingly disconnected information can lead you to marvelous insights through leaps of intuition or by your brain just connecting the dots you may not even know existed. Listen carefully to your elders, your bosses, to your colleagues, and even to your staff. You will be amazed at how much you can learn from them.

2.      Work hard at everything you do, even when the boss is absent or no one is looking.  Be totally committed to any job you take on, whether as an employee, an executive, or a volunteer. Don’t hold back. It will show in the quality of your work, and you will be truly appreciated by those around you.

3.      Do more than is expected of you. Stretch yourself to your limits, and you will be surprised to find out that you can do more than you thought you could. You will never know how far you can run until you run a marathon. That’s how athletes become giants in their sports. They run faster, jump higher, shoot farther and work hard to doing better the next day.

4.      Don’t think small. Think big! If you think small, you might be a small success, but you have been given the qualities of a leader.  Don’t just change things; transform them! You can do it! If I might share with you an example from my life. In 2000, Jaime Augusto Zobel de Ayala II and I were looking for the most strategic program we could undertake to improve the quality of public education in the country. After some discussions, we decided that it was to make our public high school students computer and internet literate. At that time, only about 3% of public high schools had internet. So we set for ourselves what is called a “hairy audacious goal” of putting computers with internet access in ALL 5,445 schools.

We knew this was a tall order, and one we could not do on our own. So we convened what we called a Multisectoral Social Consortium  composed of the national government (Department of Education), the telecommunications companies, including the competitors of Globe (which proved that companies can rise above their commercial goals for the national  interest), local governments for matching funds, and even the Filipino-American community to give back to their hometowns. It was a huge success! We raised more than P300million and were able to connect about 3,600 public high schools, transforming a whole generation of underprivileged Filipino youth into computer and internet literate men and women more able to work with the technology that has become as ubiquitous as paper and pencil. It was at that time the largest private-sector led program in public education and was then taken over by the DepEd to mainstream it into their budget.

5.      Strive for excellence in everything you do. Anything less diminishes you. Give it your best. Even God cannot ask for more. Excellence is a mark of a leader. No one wants to follow someone whom they cannot look up to. Even corporations build their brands by achieving excellence in their products and services. It is often their competitive advantage.

6.      Continuously develop every aspect of your persona – intellectually, socially, culturally, politically. Develop a sense of intellectual curiosity, asking questions, dissecting points of view, engaging in deep conversations and debate. Be open to changing  your opinion if you realize that you are wrong. Develop your business and social networks. They are a key factor in your future success. Create your own data base and constantly update and expand it as you meet new people.

7.      Above all, protect your integrity, no matter what. Trust is the most important character trait that everyone looks for – in a friend, in a spouse, in an employee, in a boss, in a leader. Once destroyed, it is almost impossible to rebuild. Never, ever lose your idealism. And for this, you need the TOSP community to help you hold fast to your moral compass. You will be faced with many challenges, temptations, that might be hard to resist. It helps if you have friends who believe in you and who can remind you of your dreams and your values.
8.      Because you are outstanding young men and women, be engaged in the life of our country and our people. You have been blessed with qualities not found in ordinary mortals. You must use those qualities not only to find personal success, but also to reach out to those who need your help, to go where the faint-hearted do not dare to tread, to reach the unreachable star. You must become a true leader!

To do that, you must have a dream – not just for yourself, but for your institution, for your community, for your country. You must then have a plan of action on how to achieve that dream. It may be short term or  long-term, you may need to revise it as you go along, but your goal and your path to achieving it must be clear to you. In addition, you must articulate that dream to others who can help you achieve it, and, by the power of your personal conviction, inspire them to work with you to realize that dream that they now share with you.

We have had many leaders whom you can look up to for inspiration and guidance. But you also have today a living example of a true leader in President Benigno Simeon Aquino III. A reluctant candidate, he was elected President on May 10,  2010, in what many believe was  a minor miracle.  Some of us think the miracle was the precise timing of the death of his mother, the  saintly Cory Aquino; the sudden, overwhelming realization of our people that there have been government officials who served with integrity; and the  generous withdrawal of Mar Roxas to make way for Noynoy Aquino.

The miracle continues in President Aquino himself. He has changed the course of Philippine history and continues to do so. In his inaugural speech on July 1, 2010, he outlined his social contract with all of us.
He made a ringing promise – wala nang wang-wang – that resonated with each and every one of us. It was the most applauded statement in his entire speech, because it captured in those three words, the root cause of many of the problems that beset our country. Those three simple Pilipino words  spoke volumes. Those three Pilipino words encapsulated the principles he would live by as our President. Those three Pilipino words can guide us in our own code of conduct.

Wang-wang depicted power; position; prestige. It also depicted arrogance; a “me-first” attitude. It was a symbol of a society that had forgotten the principles of democracy; of equality; of service; of those having less in life being given more attention. It was a symbol of the abuse of power and pelf that has become a social cancer, gnawing at the heart and soul of the country.
Everything the President has done since has flowed from  that simple promise.
The antithesis of wang-wang is good governance, and he has made that his single most important cause.  He declared war against corruption, a social evil that has become so ingrained in our society that very few people thought he would succeed. But these past three years have seen a sea-change in the attitudes of our people.
Two dramatic events have demonstrated how corruption has become such a mind-set among our government officials that they no longer realized they had destroyed their own lives and possibly those of their families. The investigation into the so-called “pabaon” of tens and hundreds of millions of pesos to top officials of the military showed, in the clearest of terms, how the government coffers could be raided with impunity. The image presented by a witness of huge vaults bulging with cash, to be dispensed  by a simple controller, was mind-boggling. It  symbolized the worst form of pillage, of arrogance, of evil. It resulted in one man committing suicide, possibly to atone for his sins, as the Japanese used to do, and possibly to spare his family from the pain and the shame of being investigated as well.
The impeachment of Chief Justice Corona showed another insidious practice in the country – the total disregard for rules and regulations by those in power. As in the case of Al Capone, the Philippine government used the tools of accounting to show that a person’s net worth was not supported by his or her income tax returns, or in the case of Corona, by his SALN. Because of these cases, people  could no longer complain  that the government only runs after the “small fish”. The Chief Justice is after all  number three in the government, right after the President and Vice President.
President Aquino did not think small. He dared go where others feared to tread. He did what people say could not be done. He shared with us his dream and we are reaping its promise. Like a true leader, he surrounded himself with the best and brightest – intelligent, committed, honest, passionate men and women who will walk his “daang matuwid” with him.
The President’s relentless campaign against corruption and for good governance has resulted in  an unprecedented economic boom that has our stock exchange soaring, various industries like the BPO, real estate, and tourism sizzling; and indications of a brain gain – overseas Filipinos coming home.  Investors are flocking to our shores.
But many problems remain. The President has called for “inclusive growth” to ensure that the benefits of economic development will improve the lives of those who need it most – the families at the base and at the very bottom of the pyramid. He is probably the most pro-poor President we have ever had. He has expanded the conditional cash transfers as a lifeline for the very poor families; implemented the K-12 to reduce the gap between the private schools and the public schools, has targeted universal health insurance as a safety net; and empowered communities through the Bottom Up Budgeting process.
He has also made a clarion call for each and every one of us to help him achieve these goals. How will you, as outstanding students and as future leaders  respond?
First you  have to start with ourselves. You  must live the enduring values of honesty, diligence, and excellence in our own personal lives. Live lives of integrity.  Help those in need.  Say no to drugs or illegal or immoral activities.
As leaders, you will have a heavier burden than most. We, your elders, no longer have  the  strength and energy to do what we used to do. We now look to you to carry on the dream. You have the intellectual capacity to dream, and the energy and confidence of youth to make that dream come true.
President Aquino has given you an unprecedented opportunity to be part of a dream that has eluded the country for decades. Seize the day! Help him transform our society into a caring community. Help him establish companies that produce excellent products and services at reasonable prices. Help him solve the problems of poverty by using your creative ideas to think outside the box. Help him transform our political system into one of duty and service rather  than one of patronage and corruption. Elections are coming up. Choose wisely and well. Do not be swayed by propaganda or empty promises. I know that many of you are already involved in the elections. I hope that, three or more years from now, some of you will run for government. We need good people to do so, otherwise, we will be forever under the claws of those who run, not to serve the people, but to enrich and aggrandize themselves. The country needs young men and women who have the intellectual capacity, the leadership qualities, and the heart for service. The country needs you.
Help him institutionalize the reforms that he and his cabinet members have started – for inclusive growth, for an empowered people, for transparency and accountability. Help him make us proud to be Filipino!
The challenge and opportunity is before you. Make your parents proud. Make your country proud. Be a true Filipino leader!






Thursday, April 4, 2013

EULOGY FOR JUDGE OSCAR LEVISTE


Eulogy for Judge Oscar Leviste
April 3, 2013
I am the youngest of six children, and Rose somehow played the role of a second mother to me as I was growing up. Maybe it was because my Mom had severe asthma and needed help in raising six children. So when Rose got married, I remained quite close to her growing family. 

I have many wonderful memories of Oscar and I learned so much from him. 

Ikoy was born when I was only 11, and I loved taking care of him when my Mom would bring him home to Gagalangin after her morning mass at Espiritu Santo. One time, when Oscar was abroad for some further studies, I think, I had been playing with Ikoy and showing him the “makahiya”.  Ikoy of course was really fascinated by the plant which would close up its leaves when he touched them. Apparently, Rose wrote Oscar about it and I soon received a very nice letter from him thanking me for taking care of Ikoy and showing him the wonders of nature. That was a good lesson in gratitude, and how important it is to express our thanks, something we often  forget to do. 

As I entered my teens, it was Oscar and Rose who would bring me to all the La Salle basketball games, so that I became a fanatic fan of the Green Archers. I even remember Ikoy giving the “rectikana-keena-keena” cheer.  Even during exam time, I would go to the basketball game with my review notes, which I would study during time- outs or the rest period between quarters. Oscar was teaching at La Salle then, and this launched me into the world of basketball which I love to this day, although I now watch NBA rather than the local teams. Watching the NBA finals is still on my bucket list. As a result of Oscar and Rose introducing me to sports, I actually played basketball in high school, and tried my hand at many sports, including bowling, where at some point I became a tournament player. 

When I went to college and started to notice boys, I remember telling Oscar that I hesitated telling the guys at our jam sessions that I was taking up BS Physics for fear of intimidating them and ending up an old maid. In his wisdom, he advised me to go ahead and tell them that I was a Physics major. And if they were intimidated,  then they were not worth my while. I took his advice and fortunately got to hang out  with interesting, intelligent men. It was a lesson in gender relations I never forgot. So I have never been intimidated by powerful men nor have I ever tried to intimidate men but have learned to work with them to attain shared goals.  Oscar’s advice has stayed with me throughout my life and is something I often mention when I am giving a talk to young women – not to be afraid to be intelligent and successful; and to learn to be  strong without losing our femininity.

Oscar and Rose also generously opened their home to me, as when our Dad started a rural bank in Guimba, Nueva Ecija, and was therefore out of town most of the week. I stayed with them in their home in Don Pedro, and became a part of their growing family. So I continued to receive their gentle concern and fraternal advice until I got married. 

It was also Oscar who sold Francis and me our very first lot, encouraging us to look at the monthly payments, which we initially thought we could not afford as newlyweds,  as putting money into a savings account. That probably launched me on my penchant for investing in real estate, which has served me very well in my financial activities.

The significance of Oscar’s life is measured by the lives he has touched. He has touched mine in big and small ways. 

Thank you, Oscar, for having taken me under your wing, teaching me in words and deeds and by your example,  and giving me wise counsel  as I grew up in the ambit of your loving family.

Monday, February 4, 2013

COLLEGE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT 100 OUTSTANDING ALUMNAE


Response – Words of Gratitude

College of the Holy Spirit Manila 
100 OUTSTANDING ALUMNAE AWARDS
2 Feb 2013
Paraclete Auditorium, Mendiola

Sr. Eden Panganiban, Provincial Leader of the Missionary Sisters Servants of the Holy Spirit
Dr. Felina Co-Young, President of the College of the Holy Spirit
Isabelita Sy- Palanca, President of the CHS Alumnae Foundation
Ellen Young-Gomez, President of CHS North America Foundation
Sisters of the Holy Spirit, dear teachers, staff, manongs and manangs, alumni, students, my co-awardees, guests, especially my sons Rafael and Carlos, my daughter-in-law Edwina, and my grandsons Andres and Adrian, ladies and gentlemen, 

A very good afternoon to you all. 
I am deeply honored and truly humbled to have been given this wonderful opportunity to respond on behalf of my fellow awardees -  all awesome, accomplished, and successful ladies, many of whom I have looked up to as my role models. Truly Women of Faith, Service, and Excellence. 
First let me thank you, on behalf of all of us, for this tremendous honor the School has bestowed upon us. We thank those who nominated us for their generous spirit in considering us worthy of the recognition. We thank the Awards Committee chaired by Celine Gamalinda-Borromeo, and members Elizabeth Natividad-Ibuyan, Ma. Eliabeth-Oca, Ma. Roxane Mendoza-Belardo, Ma. Elena Palenzuela-Meir, and Sr. Victricia Pascasio, SSpS. for bestowing upon us this singular honor of having been chosen as one of the 100 Outstanding Alumnae of the College of the Holy Spirit. It is an honor that has elicited an avalanche of congratulatory messages from our family and friends. It is an award that we will treasure forever. It is an honor that we hope will inspire our younger alumnae and students to aspire for as they navigate the difficult paths they must choose throughout their lives. 
As I stand here before you, on this stage, in this auditorium, I remember with great clarity my graduation day from college almost 50 years ago. I invite you all to hark back to that day in our lives -  as we held our diploma in our hands, eager to face the future, confident in the kind of education we received. We had passed the tests of Germanic discipline, engaged in  intellectual  discourse, prepared to discuss and debate such things as the interplay of countries in the global community, scientific discoveries, and the deeper meaning of poems that touched our hearts. We were also steeped in the spiritual values that served as our moral compass.
With that diploma in our hands, we felt we could conquer the world. 
As we heard of the wonderful achievements of our 100 Outstanding Alumnae, it  seems like we DID conquer the worlds in which we decided to serve. Our 100 outstanding alumnae represent an awe-inspiring community of individuals who have been recognized, not only by our Alma Mater today, but by the institutions they have served. By the excellent quality of their work, by their courage, by their commitment and dedication, by their unselfish service, they have risen to  the highest levels of government- national,  local, and even international;  presided over board meetings in large corporations; led NGOs in finding strategic solutions to the problems of poverty; held top positions in  colleges and universities;   carried the flag of the Philippines  in foreign countries; served at the helm of  religious orders; made their mark in countries around the world. The intellectual power, the expertise and experience, the passion, the dedication and commitment they have shown are the best reason to celebrate the 100 years of the College of the Holy Spirit here in Mendiola. They are the fruits of the dedication of the nuns, faculty, and staff who labored in the vineyard of the College of the Holy Spirit. 
Actually, however, there are many more hundreds, if not thousands of outstanding CHSM alumni out there who have lived lives of professionalism, excellence, integrity,  dedication, and hard work.  They are wives and mothers who gave totally of themselves for their families, showering them with love and devotion. They are government officials and employees who served our people well and kept their integrity intact. They are teachers who opened the minds and hearts of their students to the beauty of literature, the wonders of science, the joy of sports, the exhilaration of finally understanding some of life’s mysteries. They are nuns and lay workers who brought Christ to people and communities in urban slums or in remote hinterlands around the world. They are scientists, writers, artists, accountants, doctors, entrepreneurs -  individuals who, in their own ways, by their Spirit ablaze! have been role models to the all those whose lives they touched.
They should really be here with all of us. Each and every one of them affirms the work of the College of the Holy Spirit. Each and every one of them is the reason the Holy  Spirit guided those four intrepid nuns to travel across the world to establish a school in Her name. 
It was in these classrooms that we learned to use information to develop knowledge and from knowledge to acquire wisdom. It was in this campus that we forged enduring friendships with teachers and classmates who have celebrated our successes but kept us down to earth, friendships that have helped us through our personal challenges with quiet compassion. It was in this auditorium that we learned to perform in plays, sing in choirs, compete in declamation contests, work the lights and sounds, direct our classmates, and work together, giving us  confidence and honing our skills. It was in the quiet and natural beauty  of the grotto that we sought the intervention of Mother Mary, and in the silence of the chapel where we felt the power, the grace,  and the protection of the Holy Spirit.  
Indeed, what we dreamed as young students, what we have achieved since our graduation, what we are today,  we owe in large measure to the years we spent in these hallowed halls. Our teachers demanded excellence, but had the patience to work with us on our difficulties. Our nuns demanded strict discipline, but could laugh with us at our teenage pranks. The manongs and manangs served us with quiet dignity, teaching us the value of service to others. Through it all, we learned the enduring values of Veritas in Caritate – truth in love –  three words which sum up our CHS education.
Today, in grateful acknowledgment of the debt we owe our Alma Mater, we pledge to continue learning, to continue striving for excellence in everything we do, to continue seeking the truth and upholding the truth, to continue maintaining the highest levels of integrity, and to continue offering fraternal love and charity to all who need it. Today, in grateful acknowledgement of the debt we owe our Alma Mater, we pledge to find ways to help her continue her mission of offering quality education to all who need it. We offer our time, our talent, and our treasure and will encourage all our alumni to do the same.  
We know that the school still needs us as their partners in helping her achieve our shared vision of an educational institution that can offer quality education to all Filipinos. It is the Holy Spirit who has brought us here, at this time, in this place. Let us keep praying to the Holy Spirit a slightly revised prayer “ Come, Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of thy faithful and enkindle in US the fire of Thy love. Send forth Thy Spirit and WE shall be created and WE shall renew the face of the earth.”  Let us all pledge today  - all of us, in the name of our 23,000 or so alumnae - to be  co-creators with the Holy Spirit as together we strive to “renew the face of the earth” through our full and unstinting support to the renewal and revitalization of the College of the Holy Spirit which was established in Her honor. If we harness the talent, experience, passion, and energy of all our alumnae, we can truly conquer the world. Let us start with our Alma Mater. 
May the Holy Spirit continue to guide us, inspire us, protect us, and bless us all. 
Spirit ablaze!